Sunday, March 25, 2012

Waiting...

Yes...we're still doing foster care.  We finished our classes in February and are now just waiting for our certification to be ready.  Its been a long process!

Waiting is tough.  We've been waiting a looooong time for children.  But now when we think of children coming into our home now, its a reality!  But truthfully...it can be a scary, overwhelming reality. 

What we're doing isn't the normal way to have children.  One night, we're going to get a call, we'll find out (if we're lucky) the name, age and gender.  And we'll more than likely say we can take them.  This is crazy to really think about.  We'll go from going to our carefree life to, overnight, adding someone into the mix! 

We're preparing the best we can. We have their room set up.  A bed, for an older child and a crib if its a baby.  We have some clothes and some toys.  But its hard to be prepared for a baby or a toddler.  There's alot of differences!!

We've told them we'd like a 0-3 year old.  We don't care about gender or race.  We just want a child. :) Don't get us wrong...we're very excited...but also nervous! :)

The past couple weeks we've been thinking about our daily routines that will be changing with bringing a child(ren) into our home.  We know LOTS will be changing!  We won't have our care free get up and go attitudes.  We've become accustom to being able to do what we want...we've had 8 years of it!  Its going to be a transition for sure!  So...that's what's new in our lives...nothing quite yet...but we're prepping for what's to come!

10 comments:

AprilF said...

I don't think you can ever be fully prepared, but I do know you guys are going to be fabulous!

AprilF said...

I don't think you can ever be fully prepared, but I do know you guys are going to be fabulous!

NikNik said...

awesome......love and attention is not something you buy...you two will be amazing.

all the toys we have and my little girl prefers to dig in dirt with my kitchen spoons, type on an unplugged keyboard, paint the house with water and a small toothbrush...your prepared :) keep us posted.

becky+cade said...

how exciting! you guys will be such amazing examples to the children in your home. love you!!

Heidi Jenson said...

Keeping my fingers crossed for you both!!! You would be amazing parents and any child would be lucky to have you. Katie I know the fine examples you had for parents growing up and that will serve you well... Good luck and lots love!

Davis said...

So excited to meet them too. It's going to happen soon and you guys will do fine. It is tough at first to switch routines and all that but you will notice it will come naturally, they will be first priority as they should be! I love you both! Good luck!

barbafamily said...

I am SO excited for you guys! And, you really can never be prepared...it will be an adjustment no matter what. But, it will be one that will bring so much joy and happiness into both of your lives! The child(ren) who come into your home will be so lucky!

Adam and Emily said...

I am so excited for you guys. You guys will make the lives of whoever you take in so so better. You guys are going to make GREAT parents, foster or otherwise.

tomiannie said...

You two are going to be a huge blessing in the lives of little ones who really need you. You'll be awesome!

russandkatie said...

The foster care systems is so lucky and BLESSED to have such a wonderful couple willing to take care of those children! You are amazing!!!